Autumn-azing Memories

I love fall. It is definitely my favorite season. There is something about the smell in the air as the days slowly get colder that I can't get enough of. It is amazing to be able to turn off the ac, open the windows, and let that sweet smell in whilst enjoying the sound of the breeze rustling the leaves that will soon be decorating the ground. I also love the nostalgic feeling I get every year as the holidays approach. Wonderful memories come rushing back when I step outside and feel that chill in the air, and I find myself enjoying Autumn even more now that I can make new memories with my sweet boys. Like I said, I LOVE fall!

This fall is still young (not many open window days, yet,) but already I have made some wonderful memories with Owen and Caden. They are both in such wonderful stages right now. Owen is so inquisitive. I am amazed, everyday, at how much he is learning and how quickly he can recall the smallest details. He is becoming such a bright little boy, but he has a silly side, too. Currently, dog poop is just about the funniest thing ever! Caden is so positive and playful! His little giggle can cure my foulest mood, and his sweet kisses melt my heart. I love his love of the outdoors, and I am amazed at his budding athletic abilities. Anyways, they are pretty special! Now, on to the memories.

I mentioned in my last post that we went to the pumpkin patch to pick out some little pumpkins.

Here is Owen with his,

and Caden with his.

Once we had the pumpkins home I handed each boy a carving knife and said, "Go to town!" I'm kidding, of course! We did the predictable little kid pumpkin activity, pumpkin painting. Since the weather is still warm, I stripped the boys down to their diaper/undies, and we did our pumpkin painting in the yard.

Caden ended up with more paint on himself than on his pumpkin, as I expected. This kid is the MESSIEST eater in the world. I knew what kind of mess I was in for when I handed him a brush and some paint. Especially without the restrictions of a highchair!

Here he is giving the paint a taste.

Owen was painting with a brush in each hand.

I still don't know which hand is dominant! He may truly be ambidextrous.

The finished pumpkins.

As I mentioned before, we haven't had much cool weather yet. So, to get the boys cleaned off I turned on the sprinklers and filled up the water table. I got to sit on the backyard swing and just watch them play. I don't think a smile left my face.

Lately I have become addicted to pinterest. I am obsessed! I have found so many great ideas, recipes, crafts, quotes, etc. I have really enjoyed trying out all the great things I have discovered on there. One of my boards is dedicated to preschool ideas, and I have pinned some great fall crafts. The boys have really enjoyed the ones we've tried, and I can't wait to try some more.

This fall tree that Owen made was inspired by many different ideas on pinterest. 

I started by cutting a tree shape out of scrapbook paper and gluing it to a 12x12 piece.

Then I put some red, orange, yellow, and brown paint on a paper plate, handed Owen some q-tips, and let the little artist create.

I love this tree! I am going to frame it. I look forward to it gracing our walls for many falls to come.

We also made spirit jugs like the ones seen here, and footprint ghosts like these. Like I said, I am obsessed with pinterest! I will probably never have an original idea again. Not when there are so many great ideas available for me to just steal, I mean pin.

So, as you can see, our fall is off to a great start! I have more fall-bulous things to share, but I am having picasa issues. You will just have to be looking forward to more pumpkin patch photos, some firetruck fun, and Halloween costumes!!!! 

Thanks for reading,

Back Blogged!

Okay, okay, I know it has been way too long! I have some great excuses, but I'll try not to bore you with them. We've been super busy the last couple of months! Here is a quick update!

In July we took a family trip to the beach! We stayed in Rockport, but spent most of our beach time in Port Aransas. Owen had a blast playing in the sand, and he thought the seagulls were hilarious! Caden didn't get the memo that babies only take a bite of sand once. I guess he just liked the way it tasted. He loved playing in the "baby hole" I dug for him on the beach. He also really started walking all over the place during the trip.

In August, Sean had to go on a business trip for 9 days. This was the longest time we had been apart since we started dating! He also hadn't been gone for more than one night since we had kids. I was a little nervous about how things would go! My sweet friend Allison and her son Cole kept us busy! We went to the Austin children's museum.

Owen and Cole on the cow in front of the museum

We went to Zilker Park.

Owen and Caden on the firetruck.

We stayed at Allison's sweet Aunt Kathy's house. The boys had so much fun! It was their first sleep over with a friend.

All three boys on the swing at Aunt Kathy's

Later in the month, the boys and I headed to Galveston with Allison, Amy and their little ones. Things got a little crazy at times with 6 kids staying in the same house, but we still had fun. 

We went to Rainforest Cafe,

and the beach, of course.

Back in the "baby hole!"

My sweet boys.

On September 7th my sweet Owen started back to "school." He is really enjoying it, and the structure of the day has been really great for my independent little guy.

Posing with his monkey backpack.

Owen got to go to many fun birthday parties in September! Here he is in the real firetruck at his buddy Landon's birthday party!

On his way to rescue a cat

We also went to the Comal County Fair and Rodeo. On September 23 we took the boys to the rodeo for the first time. Owen LOVED seeing the cowboys getting thrown off their horses, and Caden loved to join in when the crowd cheered. Owen also rode a pony for the first time! He named his pony Jack. He didn't look super excited while on the pony, but he is still talking about it! I guess we have a little horse lover on our hands. We went back to the fair on the 25th to pet the baby goats and chicks. Owen got his face painted. We had to talk him out of the butterfly or flower that he wanted, and we finally settled on a very masculine looking sun. He also rode a few fun fair rides. His favorite was The Wiggly Worm, but he called it a train because it ran on tracks. Oh, and Owen rode "Jack" again.  I would show evidence of all the fun we had, but all my pics are still on my phone, doh!

This past Saturday Sean and I took the boys to the Gruene UMC pumpkin patch to pick out a couple of little pumpkins. Caden loved stomping on the pallets, and trying to pick up the pumpkins that were as big as he is. Owen found a little pumpkin he liked pretty quickly. He didn't really want to be in any pictures, but I snagged a couple anyways. The sun was a bit bright (the boys were squinting a lot) so we will probably go to a different pumpkin patch for more pics and a hayride soon.

Woohoo! I am caught up! We O'Connor's are going to have a super amazing fall, and I can't wait to share it with all of you!

Here is one last pic of the three silly guys in my life.

Party of the First year!

On July 9th the family gathered at Papa's house in Austin to celebrate Caden's first birthday.  A casual summer pool party seemed like the perfect way to celebrate my laid back, water loving, little guys first year.

Grandpa Mike cooling off in the pool.

Aunt Melissa and Anthony were enjoying the water, as well.

Aunt April chillin poolside.

We had croquet,

volleyball,

lots of presents,

and, of course, cupcakes!!!

Everyone had a fun time! I can't believe my baby is one! Mommy loves you, Caden!

 

Just drive

Do you ever have those days? If you are a mom you know what I mean. The days when your kids just won't leave each other or you alone.  The days when you feel like one more thing will send you over the edge. The days when nothing seems to be going right. Today has been one of "those days." Here are two truths about me: I am a mom, and I am selfish. These two things have a hard time coexisting. Obviously, selfishness is not something I am proud of, but let's just be honest. Sometimes I don't have the patience or discipline to put my selfishness away. I just want to relax or have some quiet.

This morning I was trying to get ready so I could get going on what needed doing, and the boys were trying very hard to prevent any progress. I was getting upset, and it was time to make a choice. I could keep battling the boys to accomplish my goal, but this would likely lead to a mommy or child meltdown, or I could put off my goal, for a while, and just drive. Just driving is sometimes what I need when I am having one of "those days." I am not talking about running errands that require you to get the kids out of the car. I am talking about strapping the kids in their carseats, on opposite sides of the car, and just driving! Doing this can give me the break I need. I can have some time to think. Time to relax. Sure, I still talk to the kids about this tractor, that traffic light, etc, but the environment is controlled. They can't start fighting over a toy, hitting each other, or grab onto my legs in a desperate attempt to be picked up.

Today I swung by a friends house to grab something waiting on the porch. I then drove around town a bit to just let some time pass, and I ended up at a fast food place where I sat in the parking lot and filled my body with junk before driving home to make my boys a healthy organic lunch.  When I got home I felt more at ease. I was able to put the selfish side away and be a good mom. I still hadn't done what needed doing, but I felt much better.

Mom's we can't be perfect! In this age of scrapbooking, organic cooking, playdate hosting supermoms, it is easy to feel inadequate or the need to compete. But, if you want my advice (not that my three years of parenting experience makes me an expert) to be a good and loving mom to your kids, you have to remember to take care of yourself. You can't continue to sacrifice and sacrifice for your children without taking time to meet your own needs. If you try you will leave yourself empty. You won't be able to give anymore. You don't want to end up yelling, crying, or whatever your version of mommy melt down looks like so take action before that can happen. Get a sitter, go on a date, have a glass of wine, or if time won't allow for these things just drive.

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Happy Birthday to my precious Caden! 

I can't believe you are already one. 

On July 6th of last year at 3am our busy first day together began when my water broke. We had been praying for you to decide it was time to come into the world, and I was so excited that the time was here! We arrived at the hospital a couple hours later so I could get started on antibiotics for group b strep. When the doctor came in to check on you and me he discovered that I had a second bag of water! Too weird! After two rounds of antibiotics I let the doctor break my other bag of water to speed things up. While we waited for you, daddy and I walked A LOT. We also ate Schlotzky's and watched the movie, Girl with a Pearl Earring. I would just relax and close my eyes during contractions.

After the movie the contractions began getting more intense. We put on some soft music, and I continued to relax while my body did the work. I felt I needed to go pee, and I knew it was almost time to meet you because I was very serious and a little snippy. I went into the bathroom, and that is where you were almost born! I didn't know if I would make it back to the bed, but somehow I did. Less than 5 minutes later at 3:48pm you were born. They placed you immediately on my chest. You were perfect! 7pounds, 9 ounces and 20 1/2 inches. I was so happy to finally be holding you. Those first moments together were perfect! I loved you so much immediately, and I have grown to love you more every day. I have been so blessed watching you grow this year. I love your playful personality! I know you are going to keep me busy, and I can't wait! You are such a gift! I am so thankful that God chose me to be your mommy! I love you, Caden! I hope your first birthday is wonderful!

A year ago

A year ago today I was 2 days overdue with Caden. I was big! Really, really big. I didn't expect to go over my due date. In fact, I thought he would be here early. Owen came 5 days early, so I crazily got my hopes up that Caden would grace us with his presence early too. Nope! Those last weeks seemed to drag on and on. All I wanted was to hold my sweet little baby in my arms, but instead I had to haul my 58 pounds heavier self around...in the Texas summer heat...with a two year old in tow. Everything took forever, and time seemed longer. How is it possible that a minute was still a minute, a day still a day, when it all seemed slower. I thought he would never come.

 Finally, on July 6, he was born. Then time, that had seemed to be crawling past, began to race. He was rolling, sitting, laughing, eating, crawling, standing all in the blink of an eye.




Now my little baby isn't so little. Wasn't it just yesterday that he was laying on my chest seeing the world for the first time? How has a year gone so quickly by? Time has played a trick on me, and I know it will continue to  do so. I will be fooled into thinking I have 17 more years until Caden is grown, but it won't really be that long. Not when I look back.  When I look back it will be a blur of memories. I'll have the dates recorded, proving that time was accurate. Seventeen years will have really passed, but just like this last year has passed in an instant, so will the rest. In 5 days my sweet Caden will be one. Then he'll be 2, 3, 4.... A minute will continue to be a minute. A day will still be a day, but don't let time fool you like it has me.